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3269 State Route
35,
Hazlet, NJ 07730
(732) 203-9200
FAX (732) 203-9208
EMAIL:
info@shorepointfh.com |
Michael Pavone, Manager
NJ Lic. No. 4556 |
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Traditional Burial
The time-honored rituals of
traditional in-ground burial are an important step in the
process of saying farewell, and healing from the sense of loss
and bereavement. Families turn to us to help them plan this
important form of tribute because they have always found peace
in services we provide, and confidence in the kindness we offer.
When you choose traditional
burial, there are commemorative choices appropriate for every
family tradition, and every budget. These may include a memorial
service, family gathering, services at the gravesite, and many
others. When you enhance these services with “special
touches” that personalize the funeral, you recall old
memories, create new ones, deepen the meaning of the tribute,
and help the healing process begin.
As we listen carefully to
your wishes, we help you select from the many forms of tribute
made possible by today’s contemporary funeral traditions. We
welcome your questions and inquiries at any time
The
Funeral Service
The
Funeral Service has three rites: the visitation, the service,
and the interment. Each rite is separate and distinct. However,
together they create a powerful and necessary means of
expression.
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The
Visitation
The visitation allows the family an opportunity to view the
deceased. The families see the reality of death and admit to
its presence. This is the first step to accepting death and
beginning the healing process. The visitation is also a time
when the community is invited to share experiences about the
deceased. This part of the ritual is so crucial to both the
family and the community because it forces discussions about
the things that are often swept under the rug. In this way,
we do not experience this crisis alone. Instead, we
celebrate the life of our loved one with the community. The
visitation rite also provides a socially acceptable time to
grieve and express very strong emotions: a healing time for
the living.
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The
Service
The service is a time of affirmation of a life lived. It is
a time for memorialization. It provides a time for religious
and spiritual recognition. The service is a ritual for the
deceased. Throughout time, we have honored the dead by
offering thoughts and prayers. A service ritual is intended
to strengthen as well as test our personal spirituality.
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The
Committal
The final rite is the committal service. The committal
service, the actual burial or cremation, is a symbolic
demonstration that a relationship has ended. When you turn
away from the place of final interment, it is a realistic
but traumatic moment. It is, however necessary to recognize
that we must say goodbye and turn to the future. The
committal rite should not be avoided nor should it be faced
alone. It is important that you and members of the community
are able to share freely the expressions of sympathy and
sorrow at the committal service
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